Private matchmaking for people who refuse to settle.

Milan, Europe, USA, Dubai

Tailored for top-tier singles looking for a lasting relationship.

  • By application only
  • Absolute discretion
  • Private matchmaking
  • No dating apps, no algorithms
  • By application only
  • Absolute discretion
  • Private matchmaking
  • No dating apps, no algorithms
  • By application only
  • Absolute discretion
  • Private matchmaking
  • No dating apps, no algorithms

Meet yourmatchmaker

Let's find your person.

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Jenia Arzhanovich in a pink blazer, seated in a green velvet armchair
Jenia ArzhanovichPrivate matchmaker · Milan

I’m Jenia, a private matchmaker based in Milan, with an international background in entrepreneurship, health and life coaching, and luxury events.

My approach is personal, strategic, and deeply selective. Having experienced matchmaking both as a client and as a professional, I know that a meaningful introduction is never just a matter of shared interests or an impressive profile. It requires understanding how someone loves, communicates, makes decisions, and envisions a life with another person.

I get to know your values, relationship patterns, ambitions, and non-negotiables, then use that insight to identify compatibility that goes beyond surface-level chemistry. Clients benefit from a thoughtful, confidential process, honest guidance, and a level of personal attention that traditional dating rarely provides.

Every introduction is carefully considered, discreetly managed, and made with long-term potential in mind—not simply to create a date, but to create the conditions for a relationship that can grow.

Dating & Relationship Strategy

Personalised ONE-TO-ONE guidance for men and women navigating the complexities of modern international dating.

These consultations are for anyone who is new to dating, returning after a long break, struggling to meet the right people, unsure how to communicate their intentions or finding it difficult to recognise genuine compatibility.

I help you clarify what you want from a relationship, identify patterns that may be holding you back and develop practical strategies for approaching dating with greater confidence. You may receive guidance on first impressions, dating etiquette, profile and message presentation, communication, boundaries, difficult conversations and understanding relationship dynamics.

Each consultation is tailored to your individual circumstances, giving you clear, practical guidance you can apply immediately — so you can date more intentionally, communicate more effectively and make better-informed decisions about potential partners.

What working with me looks like.

I work with you personally, from the first conversation to your first date.

  1. Apply

    For personal matchmaking - Become a Client.
    To join my network for introductions, Fill in the Questionnaire.

  2. Private Consultation

    You tell me about yourself and what you're looking for.
    I'll walk you through all the details of working together.

  3. Become a client

    Choose the package that fits you. Packages start from €4,000.

  4. Meet Your Matches

    I search, screen and speak with every candidate who fits your lifestyle and values. After each date I ask how it went, and I refine the search.

Fill Your Application

Become a client

A private, personal service for people serious about finding a partner. I search, screen and introduce, and stay with you through every date.

Become a client

Join The Network

Free to join. Tell me a little about yourself, and I'll reach out when I have a fitting introduction.

Be considered as a match

Why clients trust me with the most personal search of their lives.

  • Discretion first

    Your name, your photos and your story go to one person at a time, and only when you agree.

  • Time for each client

    I keep my client list small, so each search gets my full attention.

  • Honest counsel

    I tell you what I see, including what you might not want to hear. That is what you hire me for.

  • Patience over volume

    I would rather make one right introduction than ten convenient ones.

Get in Touch

Direct Communication

concierge@matchmakingprivate.it

Please select the nature of your inquiry for my discreet review.

FAQ

I work with accomplished, discerning individuals who value kindness, mutual respect, emotional maturity and the possibility of a genuine, lasting partnership. I consider every prospective client personally and with discretion.

My network includes entrepreneurs, business owners, executives and accomplished professionals from a range of industries. I value ambition, independence, integrity and a thoughtful approach to life—not professional status alone.

My network is international, extending across Europe, the United States, the Middle East and beyond. I take lifestyle, cultural background and openness to relocation into consideration.

I assess values, personality, relationship goals, lifestyle and expectations with care. True compatibility extends beyond appearance or shared interests, so I consider each person as a whole.

No matchmaking service can guarantee a relationship. I offer a personalised search, carefully considered introductions and thoughtful guidance designed to create opportunities for meaningful connection.

Absolutely. I handle personal information, conversations and profiles with the utmost discretion and strict confidentiality. I share information only with appropriate consent.

Yes. You are welcome to submit a profile for consideration as a potential candidate. I review applications individually, and joining my candidate network is complimentary.

Nothing about you is ever public. I get to know you personally, search privately, and suggest an introduction only when both people are interested.